Genuinely thought I was the only person that ever felt this. How are some people so effortlessly cool at being uncool?! ;-) I'm more quiet/introverted uncool, so I gravitate sometimes towards fun, more outgoing, (seemingly) un self-conscious "weird" folk, who make ME feel ok about my inner weirdness. There is no lonelier feeling than trying to blend in with people who don't get you, glad you figured that out, a sure sign of true cool-ness in my book! :-)