I hope things improve soon, at the very least you deserve a hot shower, stat! It sounds like (hopefully) your refusal to back down with your daughter's situation is at least forcing their hand/she will come away from it knowing she fought hard, and her family had her back, whatever the outcome. It stinks she is in that position though and you have every right to put a voodoo hex/think bad thoughts on that person imo! Hope things get a bit brighter soon. ❤️🙏