I think it is dangerous how they are presenting their lives as a representation of something two dimensionally appealing to young, malleable minds. Wealth and pretty houses and nice clothes and delicious food and perfect children aren't the real day to day but it's what these accounts promise. If the woman has to take to her bed for a week clearly something is wrong with the perfect life. They are selling a fallacy, a fairy tale that will ultimately do a lot of harm if the wrong girl meets the wrong guy. Patriarchal subservience is not the way, it's stunningly depressing to see this happening in the current political climate especially.