I think so many of us for so long were able to function without things like self care and flexibility/going with the flow when not in control of things that it is way more challenging than it should be. Sound advice all here Jill thanks, I like the Tazmanian Devil comparison although I remember that cartoon really stressed me out lol! Best wishes to your daughter on her impending nuptials, hope it goes as according to plan as is possible right now. :-)