Loved this! I am 46 and feel adrift already with the clothes racks, it's not easy finding cute clothes that I am comfortable in that aren't frumpy (I am cool with frumpy to a point but not...mumsy frumpy). My Mom dresses nicely/without much attention to any of that stuff, but I do see a lot more older women where I live in the UK dressing like early 20th century grandmas once they hit 60 though and it's depressing. I would rather dress like a 25 year old, you are right the opinion of others matters less and less to me too lately.