Oh Deb, for all the sadness and suffering in here there is so much love and light too. You made sure Grandma left this earth feeling loved and cared for. The vison of her at the end is so heart-warming and beautiful. I am so sorry you lost your Mom to such an awful disease, and Wayne for all his flaws sounds like a good man you made sure to let love and kindness surround him in his last moments too. I don't know what made his daughter so bitter, I was estranged form my own dad as you know but had I known he was ill I would have dropped everything, that really upset me to read. Thank you for being the emotional glue for this family.