Ugh, I am so sorry this happened to you, but glad your story touched so many (I just read your latest article). Also doctors can be assholes too, you absolutely do not need to lose weight if you ever decided to have a reduction. Weight loss is their answer for everything nowadays. I had a friend in middle school who developed very young and I will always remember the torment that she went through with boys teasing her. I would like to think that your friends somehow didn't realize how hurtful they were being but I hope you never feel that way again with people you trust and you have every right to tell anyone to f*ck off who thinks it's ok to body shame you.