Ugh, it's such a horrible thing to have to deal with, and at 5 a.m. ffs what is wrong with people. I am so sorry you had to go through that. I know you don't wish to contact the police but he is likely a serial offender and you never know, maybe it could nab him. But I understand not wanting to think about it at all, and I am so sorry you felt powerless to ask for help.