With much kindness Bonnie, NO. He doesn't want to be your friend. He is only interested in satisfying his kink, and has shown disregard for your feelings multiple times already just by what you shared here. I understand he is a pleasant companion otherwise, but I don't think you should waste your time. But that's just my two cents, you are smart and will do what's best for you. (But also no, you can do better!)